I'm not handicap but sumtimes do feel so...
Thursday, March 05, 2009 Edit This 3 Comments »Hmm...expecting another baby is fun when u don't have any sickness....during my first 4 months of my pregnancy, i was soooooo sick....i had fever up to 3 times a week, gastric, nausea, lost my appetite, alergic to so many smells n lots more..but now, everything is over. I'm feeling much better...i have such a big appetite until sumtimes I juz can't stop munching....but still i juz weigh 51 kg...surprise ha? after 7 months, I only gained 3 kg...n most of my colleagues said i look like 5 months pregnant...but...only God knows how heavy i feel...
N y do i feel like handicap? it is when sum of my colleagues keep reminding me to walk slowly n carefully...thanks for being concern...i appreciate that...but, being pregnant doesn't mean that everything is limited...what more i' m d type who walk fast...they always say tat i walk like ordinary people...am i extraordinary? pregnant women should keep themselves fit..walk like usual..u don't have to drag ur feet...eventhough there r times when i feel heavy, i don't drag my feet...i try my best to make myself look fit...juz sumtimes i feel exhausted when i climbed the stairs...however...i know tat towards d end of my pregnancy i'll walk like a king kong...can't do anything bout tat...
one more thingis bout how u dress when u r pregnant...do u hv to luk awful with oversized dress? NO WAY!!!!!!! that's not me! having big tummy for 9 months doesn't mean tat u have to limit ur fashion...i rarely wear dress...i only have 4 maternity dress in my wardrobe...d rest r blouses, skirts, cardigan...etc...n i do put make up n my face...n many people will say..."ni mesti anak perempuan...berseri2"...huh...
I read lots of articles about pregnant women feeling down or rendah diri...actually, xde sape yg merendahkan wanita mengandung...tetapi wanita itu sendiri...kenapa bila mengandung kena biar diri n tubuh badan jd kusut masai? dress up n put some make up! make urself luk good! it is sumthing to b proud when u r pregnant! not all women can gat pregnant. be grateful of urself. Tuhan bg kelebihan kpd wanita mengandung, kenapa harus rasa rendah diri dgn keadaan fizikal g bersifat sementara? I'm proud when m hubby said tat i luk sexier at this moment. Buncit, gemuk, jalan macam king kong tu hanya untuk beberapa bulan je...think positif...
