I'm not handicap but sumtimes do feel so...

Thursday, March 05, 2009 Edit This 3 Comments »
Hmm...expecting another baby is fun when u don't have any sickness....during my first 4 months of my pregnancy, i was soooooo sick....i had fever up to 3 times a week, gastric, nausea, lost my appetite, alergic to so many smells n lots more..but now, everything is over. I'm feeling much better...i have such a big appetite until sumtimes I juz can't stop munching....but still i juz weigh 51 kg...surprise ha? after 7 months, I only gained 3 kg...n most of my colleagues said i look like 5 months pregnant...but...only God knows how heavy i feel...
N y do i feel like handicap? it is when sum of my colleagues keep reminding me to walk slowly n carefully...thanks for being concern...i appreciate that...but, being pregnant doesn't mean that everything is limited...what more i' m d type who walk fast...they always say tat i walk like ordinary people...am i extraordinary? pregnant women should keep themselves fit..walk like usual..u don't have to drag ur feet...eventhough there r times when i feel heavy, i don't drag my feet...i try my best to make myself look fit...juz sumtimes i feel exhausted when i climbed the stairs...however...i know tat towards d end of my pregnancy i'll walk like a king kong...can't do anything bout tat...
one more thingis bout how u dress when u r pregnant...do u hv to luk awful with oversized dress? NO WAY!!!!!!! that's not me! having big tummy for 9 months doesn't mean tat u have to limit ur fashion...i rarely wear dress...i only have 4 maternity dress in my wardrobe...d rest r blouses, skirts, cardigan...etc...n i do put make up n my face...n many people will say..."ni mesti anak perempuan...berseri2"...huh...
I read lots of articles about pregnant women feeling down or rendah diri...actually, xde sape yg merendahkan wanita mengandung...tetapi wanita itu sendiri...kenapa bila mengandung kena biar diri n tubuh badan jd kusut masai? dress up n put some make up! make urself luk good! it is sumthing to b proud when u r pregnant! not all women can gat pregnant. be grateful of urself. Tuhan bg kelebihan kpd wanita mengandung, kenapa harus rasa rendah diri dgn keadaan fizikal g bersifat sementara? I'm proud when m hubby said tat i luk sexier at this moment. Buncit, gemuk, jalan macam king kong tu hanya untuk beberapa bulan je...think positif...

3 comments:

nurul said...

well..well..well
tq for the entry...
actually mmg aku nk style ble time mengajar kt skool tp 2 minggu lps aku kene panggil ngan pengetua coz baju yg aku pakai tu sexy...padahal aku pkai blouse pregnant yg aku rasa xle sexy pun...

well again aku kenela ikut rules and regulations in my skool... kdg2 ade gak desire nk pakai mcm2 and nk wat mcm2 tp lau selalu sgt kene tegur fed up jgk...cume aku anggap lau diorg tegur aku tu coz die dengki kt aku coz xdpt pakai or wat ape yg aku wat skang...

tp xpela...lau kt skool aku xleh melawa sgt....kt luar aku balun je ape yg aku nk pakai...lagipun bkn diorg yg judge idup kita....
suka kita la nk pakai ape betul x...hehehe

Rainani said...

Pregnant ni menyeronokkan.. org kata bdn naik la.. itu la ini la.. but sebenarnya org pregnnt ni sexy..pakai bj ikut keselesaan bukan sbb org. Tp memandangkan kawanda n anis ni teacher.. terpaksa jugaklaa follow rules kan.. wel...klau xbleh nk bgaya di skool... kt luar pun boleh kan..? xsabar nk tggu kehadiran anak² kalian..:D

Suzie said...

waaaa kita belum ada la kelebihan tu sbb kita blm pregnant =(