funkymummy

lau ikut dalam agama, besederhana adalah yang terbaik supaya kita sentiasa beringat dan mensyukuri pemberian Tuhan...bila kita terlalu obses kita akan menurut perasaan...bukan setakat perasaan untuk shopping, tetapi perasaan kasih sayang atau cinta...kenapa...?

i learn this from my very own experience...i used to be deeply in love with someone who finally ruined my love n hurt my feelings...since then, i believe that it is not wrong to love someone or to be in love but there must be a limit...we have have to be rational by looking at both our partner's strengths and weaknesses...but what i could see, most..of the women that i know will give 500% of themselves to the men they love...that is not rational...that is no longer sederhana...some of my frens who r truly, deeply, madly in love, will trust their partners 500%...we say that love is blind...love is an abstract noun...it does not have eyes to see...but, we human are noun that is specially created by God with brain...why god give us brain? it is for us t think...brain is something precious given by god is we know how to use it...but...to those who are obsessed in love do not use brain...they just trust their partners blindly, mereka terlalu memuji dan memuja orang yang dicintai...this is wrong...yang hanya boleh di puja hanya tuhan, yang boleh diagungkan , hanya tuhan! as a human being created by god, we cannot adore other human being who is also created by our creators...why? it is because, we r not PERFECT! human r not perfect! human tend to make a lot of mistakes...so, relate this with the love that u have inside you..when u love someone, don't give 100% of ur love..don't give 100% of ur trust..keep for urself..if no one will love u more than u do..aprreciate urself..don't let urself be hurt by other people...especially ur loved ones..don't give too muc in a relationship...bcoz, less is more...why i'm saying this...? when u r hrt by someone u adore toooooooooooo much, some u think tooooooo prefect, someone there is no weaknesses...one day, when the bad part of him appears, u will be truly, deeply n madly hurt...once u r cheated, the wound won't heal...i write this because i can't stand seeing some foolish ladies being blinded by what so called LOVE. love urself first, appreciate urself first...u r precious...i'm not saying that i dont trust my hubby, or i don't love him...of course i love him..of course i trust him...but the trust that i give him just in moderate 'amount'...we can't predict the future...anybody can hurt us...even the closest person to us...as a human, just pray for they best, but prepare for the worst...

HOWEVER...there r some wives who will tell other people about the negative sides of their hubbies...oh god! u can find someone that u trust to tell ur problems..but if everyday u keep grumbling about ur hubby, i can't ensure what is the reward that god give u as a wife...so...inilah perasaan yang sederhana...di sini aku respect nurul...she stays with toya through thick n thin...she has gone through many challenges...all the tears that she shed, all the laughters that she shared...she's amazing to me...n to my surprise toya who used to look like a 'lepak' boy now is a responsible father...despite of going to be an artist...he is GOOD father...amazing...even someone who always listen to 'sermon' also cannot be like that...who? msg me for further detail...x baik cite keburukan laki orang kat cni...hehehe...to toya, after this u'll become an artist, but i hope u can still be toya that i know...nurul, ko dah restui pilihan dia untuk jadi artist so be patient with all the coming challenges...to suzie...marriage is not the end of a love story, but it is a new chapter of ur life...be strong...to myself...(ada sapa2 nak nasihat aku x?) hehehe...to my hubby...i love u eventhough i rarely say it directly...u r my happiness...